Online safety is a topic I think we can’t talk enough about with other parents and with our kids.  Gone are the days of corded phones you’d stretch into the other room for privacy, and here are the days of instant, quick, irreversible, impulsive texting, etc.
This post is adapted from the eBook, Growing Up Online by NBCUniversal’s “The More You Know” in collaboration with NBC News, here are some great excerpts and tips for parents, educators and kids.

Our children are growing up in a digital world with technology right at their fingertips. They’re spending more and more time on the web, so teaching them about using technology responsibly and safely is critical.  Summertime is a great opportunity to teach kids the ins and outs of online safety. Additionally, it’s a great time for parents and educators to brush up on their digital literacy.

As part of the discussion to educate parents, teachers and children about being responsible and safe online, NBCUniversal’s “The More You Know” Learning Series — in collaboration with NBC News — is unveiling Growing Up Online, a free, interactive eBook on digital literacy and Internet safety. Growing Up Online provides easy-to-use information and addresses the pressing concerns about kids’ online privacy and cyberbullying in a very unique and engaging way. To help share information with kids, the eBook includes four entertaining video comic books focused on real situations that may come up when kids go online.

Here are some tips from the book:

Open a Dialogue

Talk with your kids. Ask them where they’re going online . . . and visit those sites both with them and without them. Let them show you the programs they’re using. Encourage your kids to come to you if they’ve seen something that confuses them or makes them uncomfortable. Because the most effective tool you have in dealing with your kids is conversation.

Know What Apps Your Kids Are Using

Smartphones and tablets are the newest ways to go online, through apps, browsers and email links, one can gain access to almost anything. Most kids don’t get their own smartphones before the ages of 12 or 13; so it’s likely that if your younger kids are playing with apps, they’re using your devices. This makes it much easier for you to monitor what they’re doing.

Check the applications your kids want to download. Most app stores, including iTunes and Google Play, have age ratings to help you. Make sure you’re comfortable with the apps’ content. Some games have multiplayer options. If your kids are interacting with strangers, you can often limit or block those options. There are also free apps like Kytephone for Android that allows parents to decide which apps and phone numbers are okay for their kids to use.

Check Your Child’s Browsing History

Web browsers like Internet Explorer, Firefox, Chrome or Safari usually have a clearly marked “History” tab that allows you to see exactly where your browser has been and what has been downloaded to your computer. New operating systems, like Windows 8, have already begun instituting parental controls that allow you to check your child’s browsing history no matter which browser you use.

To figure out how to use this on your particular browser, you can check out Common Sense Media or WebWise Kids. Or, watch this NetSmartz video. Sometimes your child may use a different web browser than you do. To be thorough, check all the browsers on your computer. Remember, though, that your kids are probably very Internet savvy and might already know how to delete their browser histories. So ask them where they’ve been. Encourage trust by being honest with them about your own activities in tracking their usage. Their safety is your priority.

The More You Know About . . . Private Browsing

If you’re using a computer your kids can access, it’s easy for them to visit sites you’ve been on. If you want to keep your own browsing history private, most browsers allow you to engage something called “Private Browsing.” In “Private Browsing” mode, no browsing history is visible. This can be a useful tool for parents who might want to visit sites on a shared computer that they don’t want their kids to see. But . . . be sure to turn it off when you stop browsing, or it will also make your child’s browsing invisible. Private browsing tools are usually easy to find. In Chrome and Firefox, they’re in “Settings”. In Microsoft Internet Explorer, they’re under the “Safety” drop-down menus.

Filtering and Parental Controls

Did you know that you can block certain sites or parts of sites from appearing on your computer? YouTube enables you to use its Safety Mode to screen out potentially objectionable content that you may prefer not to see or that you don’t want members of your family stumbling across. It does this by preventing many, but not all, of these videos from showing up in your children’s video search. For more information, check out this tutorial or read this YouTube informational page. Parental controls have also been built into both the Windows and OS X operating systems. You can find out more about these on the Apple and Microsoft sites. And some Internet Service Providers, like Comcast or Time Warner Cable, offer parental control apps and programs that enable you to filter what sites your kids can access and monitor what they’re doing online. You can also purchase these kinds of programs independently.

Both Apple and Microsoft Offer a Variety of Parental Control Features Including:
– Giving you remote access to what your child has been doing online
– Blocking specific sites
– Monitoring sites for objectionable content so they can be blocked when necessary

To check out these programs, refer to, which provides information that will help you select the right one for your family. Remember, as kids become more sophisticated, they discover the many ways they can get around these controls. None of them is foolproof, so don’t rely on them to do all the work. Talk with you kids. Your relationship with them is still the best way to keep them safe online.

Growing Up Online is available as a free download on Apple’s iBookstore for iPad and iPad Mini, Barnes & Noble’s Nook Tablet, Amazon’s Kindle Fire, and Kobo Tablets (coming soon to Google Play for Android devices). The book is also available online for desktop and laptop viewing at Spanish language editions will be available in the near future.

About The More You Know
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